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When Is It Bad Enough?

Years!

It’s taken me years to figure out enough is enough.

I’m talking AT LEAST 4 years. So, if this list can help one person draw the line sooner, I’ll feel better.

On the other hand, I don’t regret those 4 years of ambivelence. I learned from them, grew from them, and it certainly wasn’t all bad. I know now I wasn’t ready for it any sooner anyway.

1. You’ve repeatedly made your boundaries clear, but they’re still being crossed on a regular basis.

2. The trust has been violated on many occassions, making it feel impossible to build up.

3. You feel you’re carrying a weight around with you wherever you go.

4. You’re more often feeling drained and less often feeling energetic.

5. Your feelings of self-worth are decreasing, and you find yourself believing you deserve some of the things that are happening to you.

Take it from one of my favorite shows, Grey’s Anatomy.

 

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